THE ART OF FLIRTING (5 Tips on how to flirt)

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How to Talk to Anyone by Leil Lowndes - http://amzn.to/2Gd2i9k

1. Make eye contact.
I’ve mentioned it before, but eye contact is extremely powerful when it comes to attracting someone.  Making eye contact and smiling is already sending a big huge sign that you’re interested in them or they’re interested in you.  Being able to hold your gaze with someone conveys confidence and trustworthiness.  Studies have also shown that gazing into a potential partner’s eyes can increase attraction

2. Compliment someone on something they’ve done, not on their looks.
Own your compliments, too.  Don’t say, “You have a really nice fashion sense”.  Tell him, “I love your sense of style.”  Or even if you tell her she’s beautiful.  Saying, “I think you’re beautiful”

3. Use humor and tease them
In my opinion, humor is the defining element to flirting.  You can have a conversation and compliment someone, but that doesn’t make it flirting.

4. Innuendo
Innuendo gets people to think about exactly what’s not being said.  So if you get someone to think about a snake cup, it primes them to think about enjoying a snake cup with you.  And that plants a little seed of attraction into their minds.

5. In addition to teasing, adding some physical contact can help boost attraction while you’re flirting.
Just like humor, it’s important to stay on the fine line of not too much physical contact and having just enough.

Lastly, remember to have fun!  Flirting is supposed to be fun and energizing.  Don’t bog yourself down worrying over every little detail.  The more you flirt, the better you’ll get.  And the more fun you have with it, the more people will want to flirt with you.

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