HOW TO GET A GUY TO LIKE YOU (TIPS ON GETTING A BOYFRIEND) part 1

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(book) Models: Attract Women Through Honesty
by Mark Manson  http://amzn.to/2CwB37w

Eye contact is probably one of the biggest signals of attraction that you can send to a guy. 

You want to make eye contact with him, then smile and look away.  A minute or so later, you want to make eye contact again, but this time smile and hold eye contact for at least 5 seconds.  5 seconds doesn’t sound long right now, but it’s a pretty significant chunk of time when your eyes are locked.

Go up to him and say hi.  Guys really appreciate it when women make the first move because besides taking some of the pressure off of them to initiate, they also don’t have to wonder if you are into them or not.  Going up and introducing yourself to a guy is a very clear signal that you’re interested in him and that you know what you want (and guys are really attracted to that!).

Next, you want to Look for compatibility and have high self esteem.
I mentioned before that guys really like women who know what they want.  This ties in with having high self esteem.  When you know what you want, you know what kind of personality works for you, you know which values align with yours, you know what sort of humor and interests you can connect with, and so forth.  When you have high self esteem, you don’t worry about saying no to the people who aren’t compatible with you and you’re perfectly happy staying single until you find someone who’s actually a good match.

If he doesn’t text you, Don’t freak out
Our minds like making snap judgement and jumping to conclusions, and while that might have been useful to us as hunter/gatherers, it’s not always so helpful in the modern day.  I’ve heard a lot of women start to freak out if it’s been a day or two and the guy they’ve just started hasn’t texted them. 

While there is a chance those things are true, my rule of thumb is to give people the benefit of the doubt until you have evidence to prove otherwise.

Create fun experiences and positive memories together

Connecting with him early on (& on a deeper level)

In Mark Manson’s book, “Models,” he gives advice to men on how to pick up women.  However, there’s one part that I think applies well to both men and women and that is the subject of polarization.

Have active dates
Dinner and movie dates are clinche, boring, and can sometimes feel like a job interview.  An easy way to create more intrigue is by going on dates that are active and are a new experience for one or both of you.  When we are active with other people- hiking, dancing, touring museums- and trying something for the first time, we tend to develop a stronger sense of connection with the person (or people) who were with us during that time.  Therefore, you can sort of hack your dating by going on an adventure with your guy and develop a feeling of closeness with him faster than if you were to just go to dinner.

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