Who Do You Need to be to Attract Someone Amazing? (Course of Attraction PART 4)

Hey all, welcome to the final segment of The Course of Attraction. Check out Part I - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjORq... Part II - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZw3Q... Part III - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fbnax... S U B S C R I B E ► to BePrimo - We post new videos every week! http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqfJF... Be more open and receptive to people. You don’t have to like or love every person you meet, but sometimes we shut ourselves off from others too quickly or too easily without every giving them a chance. Look for the good in people, really listen to them and work to understand their point of view- you’ll find that people will open up to you fairly easily and you’ll grow closer, faster. Recognize that everyone has strengths and weaknesses. When we get rejected or it turns out that they’re not a good fit for us, we tend to get angry or upset and turn against that person. However, just because they rejected you or there wasn’t any chemistry doesn’t mean that they’re a bad person, nor are you. It just didn’t work out and you’ve got much better things to do with your time than ruminate about how crazy, or awful they are to make yourself feel better. On the other hand, when we meet someone we’re attracted to, it’s easy to get carried away and think that they’re perfect. They’re the most beautiful person you’ve ever met, they’re the smartest, or the funniest, and they can do no wrong. But the truth is that they’re not perfect. You’ll want to train yourself away from idolizing a person like that as well, because you’re ignoring what makes us all human- that we all have faults, strengths, fears, and dreams. And really, the fact that we’re not perfect is what makes us so interesting. When you know what you want, go for it. There will be times when it feels like it’s hopeless. Don’t give up and don’t take the easy path if it’s not good for you. When we start out learning a new skill, getting in shape, or working towards a goal, we’re most motivated in the beginning. But once things get difficult, we want to give up, or switch to something else and we never gain any real traction. You’ve got to stick with your commitment to yourself and get over that hump. That hump will be the most difficult part, but once you overcome it, the momentum you’ve build will make your progress easier. Soon, what felt like a mountain will now seem like a molehill. Now I want you to think of your ideal partner. Write down what your ideal partner is like- characteristics, values, goals, everything. When you’ve got a clear idea of who your ideal partner is, I want you to think about who would they be attracted to? Are you the kind of person who’s ready to be in a happy, healthy relationship? Being your best self and living your best life. You’re not perfect, no one is, but are you striving to be better? Do you pay attention to your habits, biases, and your outlook on life? Take care of your body. Take care of your brain. Reading is always a great way to expand your knowledge and creativity. Find creative outlets to express yourself such as music, art, writing- anything method you enjoy and feel productive in a regenerative way. And then train yourself to think positively.