Get rid of these habits if you want to attract someone amazing! (COURSE OF ATTRACTION PART 3)

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4 Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz - https://amzn.to/2GRKYtE 6 Pillars of Self Esteem -Nathaniel Branden https://amzn.to/2EjrEAl Get rid of these habits if you want to attract someone amazing We all have bad habits or moments that can get the better of us, but if these bad habits control your life, then they’ll do their best to prevent you from putting your best self out there and attracting someone awesome. It’s not impossible to meet someone even if you do have bad habits, but it definitely makes it a lot harder. So let’s go over three self-destructive habits that you need to get rid of in order to attract great people. Like attracts like, so if you find that you have a lot of negativity or insecurity in your life, you’ll likely also find that you attract similar people (and potentially also pushing away people who are confident and positive). If you feel like you always attract the wrong kind of person, then this is a good time to reflect and start paying attention to the kinds of signals you’re putting out in the world for the “wrong” people to be drawn towards you. Destructive physical habits. People pick up on our body’s nonverbal communication even without consciously being aware of it and our mental states are affected by how we carry ourselves and treat our bodies. If you were to hunch your shoulders while walking, people might get the feeling that you are closed off, in a bad mood, or sad. You might even feel down or anti-social in that moment. However, if you were to walk with your shoulders back and your head raised so that you made eye contact with the people you passed, you would both come off as more confident and feel more confident. Amy Cuddy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phcDQ... Destructive mental habits Our minds are usually the biggest obstacles for us when it comes to setting our sights high. We’re the ones who put the biggest limitations on ourselves. We critique ourselves more harshly than others and convince ourselves to never take a chance. Maybe once in history this mindset was useful to us, but nowadays, it only holds us down. You are doing yourself a disservice by holding onto your fears, insecurities, stress, and anger. I don’t want to minimize the pain and hardships that many of us have had to and still do deal with in our lives. They can feel like a boulder dragging us to the bottom of the ocean. But we can’t simply let it pull us down. We need to fight to the top despite the weight and grow stronger because of it. Once we break the surface, the sunshine and air will make it all feel worth the struggle. If you want to attract someone who’s caring, smart, confident, and positive, again, take some time to reflect if that’s the kind of vibe you put out around people. What are your insecurities or sources of stress? What are steps that you can take to fight against that pull to the bottom of the ocean? Maybe it’s reading self help books, going to therapy, or meditation. Some of our favorite sources are The Six Pillars of Self Esteem, by Nathaniel Branden. The 4 Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz. And “The Power of Vulnerability” a talk by Brene Brown [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvms... ] Destructive social habits Are you around people who are supportive, they lift you up, and encourage you to do better? Or do you spend your time with people who are negative, they put you down, cause drama, and are selfish? The company you keep holds a huge influence over how you see the world, so you want to surround yourself with people who fall into a similar line of the life you want for yourself. People will color your world view of what is and isn’t possible. They’ll say things that may be true for them, but don’t have to be true for you. Find people who are already in happy relationships or are happy being single and learn from them how they make it work. A quick tip- if you’re curious how to meet new people, Part 1 of the Course of Attraction [https://youtu.be/hjORqhK3PDQ] provides great ways to meet new people in general, not just someone to date! Now, we’ve talked about which habits you need to get rid of if you want to attract more people, but what kind of habits should you gain? Stay tuned for Part 4 of the Course of Attraction, where I’ll cover who you need to be to attract amazing people.