What Men Want in a Woman
I hear a lot of women puzzle over how to get a guy to willingly commit to a relationship, because as soon as she mentions the word ‘commit’ he usually starts to back away. Fortunately, it’s not as hard as you might think to get a guy to shift from “I’m just not ready for anything serious yet” to “I’m in this for the long-haul”. While everyone is a little bit different, here are the common traits and values that most men are looking for before they consider committing to a relationship. He wants to feel like a man. I’m not talking about traditional gender roles where he’s the breadwinner, or he does all of the handy work around the house. What I mean when I say, he wants to feel like a man, is that he wants to know he can take care of you and that he feels needed and appreciated by you. Basically, he should have a special role with you in your relationship that no one else will fill and he knows it (just like you have a special role with him that no one else will fill). He’s l...